Tuesday, June 8, 2010

What if?

Yesterday was my birthday.

And I asked for nothing.

I actually requested just that...nothing.

And people respected that wish.  You all know, I have been cleaning out.  Simplifying.  I don't need things, really.

Well, I got more than nothing.  I received plenty of love.  And great messages.  That meant more to me that any new shirt could have.

I had a wonderful, typically chaotic dinner with Brian and the boys.
But something occurred to me.

We all get to a time and stage where we don't really need anything.  But I have something I want.  I want to do something.

I wrote earlier this week about the strange blanding effect of social media.  Where it all becomes just easy.  And lazy.  And words.  And filler.

But tonight a thought struck me.  This week, I am going to open my eyes.  I am going to not expect a birthday gift for myself, I am going to give one (or many back).

Instead of scrolling past Facebook appeals for school fundraisers and virtual lemonade stands, I am going to stop and read about them and give to them.

Instead of skimming past Twitter appeals to support cause A or cause B, I am going to read them and support them.

Maybe I can only give $5 to each.  But I will learn and, if the cause is a good one, I will give.

In honor of my 36 years on this earth.  The 36 years I have been lucky enough to be here, I will give a gift.

Want to give a gift (not to me, but to yourself or to those you care about)?  I'd love it if you did the same.

What can we do in a week?


P.S. No, this doesn't mean you should start emailing me about your causes.  I wish I could support them all, but the truth is, I probably can't.  I didn't win the lottery.  We tried.  But, no luck.  I wish I could support thousands of causes, but I can't.  This is just about just opening my eyes to what was already there.

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