That makes me sound like my mother-in-law.
But I got to do something that "Mrs. Snyder" (again, talking about me, here) would do.
I got to be a chaperone.
A few weeks ago, Caleb, out of the blue, asked if I could chaperone his field trip to the zoo.
I have to admit, being a parent who works full time outside the home, I kind of don't pay much attention to those "We need chaperones!" slips that come home.
After all, I use my PTO for the kids' sick days, not for walking around museums with them. Even though museums are a lot more fun.
But then I thought back to my recent promise to myself.
That I was not going to let the busy-ness of life own us.
That I was going to embrace moments.
And so I arranged to take the morning off.
I was going to be a chaperone.
I supervised their animal and plant observations.
I entertained kids, even when all of the exhibits lost electricity and were closed.
Which was a particular challenge given that almost all of the animals were already inside due to the cold weather.
I survived two boys thinking a nude statue was the "nastiest" thing in the world.
I didn't lose anyone.
And for one morning, I got to hang with my oldest boy. A boy who, when he got off the bus, ran toward me, jumping and yelling, "You're here! You're here!"
(And no, that doesn't mean I have a history of not showing up when I say I am going to.)
Even better? He was happy to hang with me.
I was a chaperone.
And I was pretty good at it.
Other than the time when one of the kids tried to call me "Mrs. Snyder" and I did a double take. I did correct him and tell him to just call me Molly.
Of course, now Noah has requested that I chaperone his trip to the zoo at the end of the month. I've told them both they just have to promise not to get sick so I can keep using my PTO for the good stuff.
Because this is the good stuff for sure.








